Why this to me alone???

Strange.. we keep on asking this question when we are in trouble.. "Why this has happened to me alone?" "What did I do, Why all are put on me only?"

hmm.. good.. right thing to ask.. But did you ever notice this strange thing? You ask this question only when bad things happen to you, only when troubles are hitting you, only problems are cropping up in your life.

You dont give space to think about your problem, to work for its solution, to move towards the next step, but rather spend your energy and time in asking the same question " why this to me?"

Just imagine the other way round, if you are in good times, if you have got a promotion, if you land up in a high paying job, you just now had a lovely baby.. will you ask this question " why this to me"? You just jump high in air with happines.

Right, you never asked God this question, when you had the right thing, when God has chosen you for some of the happiest moments.. But you turn up to him for blaming when he is giving you little problems, just to make you stronger.  Dont you think its an utter selfishness?

When you say you have a problem, think that there is a solution for it.. Work towards that solution, dont stand there with your problem, move next step further and you will know that the problem has faded away with your solution. 

If you dont see a solution for a problem, please dont call it as a problem.  Accept it as a fact.. raw fact.. and move towards next step. I am sure.. you will find great days ahead...

Next time when you ask "why alone to me" question, think of the good days that God gave you. :)