Why this to me alone???

Strange.. we keep on asking this question when we are in trouble.. "Why this has happened to me alone?" "What did I do, Why all are put on me only?"

hmm.. good.. right thing to ask.. But did you ever notice this strange thing? You ask this question only when bad things happen to you, only when troubles are hitting you, only problems are cropping up in your life.

You dont give space to think about your problem, to work for its solution, to move towards the next step, but rather spend your energy and time in asking the same question " why this to me?"

Just imagine the other way round, if you are in good times, if you have got a promotion, if you land up in a high paying job, you just now had a lovely baby.. will you ask this question " why this to me"? You just jump high in air with happines.

Right, you never asked God this question, when you had the right thing, when God has chosen you for some of the happiest moments.. But you turn up to him for blaming when he is giving you little problems, just to make you stronger.  Dont you think its an utter selfishness?

When you say you have a problem, think that there is a solution for it.. Work towards that solution, dont stand there with your problem, move next step further and you will know that the problem has faded away with your solution. 

If you dont see a solution for a problem, please dont call it as a problem.  Accept it as a fact.. raw fact.. and move towards next step. I am sure.. you will find great days ahead...

Next time when you ask "why alone to me" question, think of the good days that God gave you. :)

Forget it!!!! Is that so easy?

"Forget it.." as we say.. while we fight or argue or sometimes even in a steady mood.... I wonder, is that so easy to forget something?

                     To forget about our painful past..
                     To forget about our lost relationship..
                     To forget the words that hurt us.....
                             and the list goes..

I kept on thinking as to why we dont forget our painful past although we have truly beautiful memories and happiest moments in the present. Why dont we forget the pain we took to earn single penny in the past when we actually earn lakhs today. Why dont we forget the pain of our lost relationship when we are actually in a wonderful relationship today. The question in my mind goes on.

Then at one point, it occured to my mind that we fail to enjoy the present, fail to relish every moment we live now, fail to think about the beautiful days we may have tomorrow, fail to dream for wonderful beginning tomorrow. Yes, this is the truth. We keep on lingering over our past painful moments and does not allow them to heal. We tend to make deep cuts over and over on the same wound which had already left a deep scar in our mind.

We fail to understand God has given us the great power of forgeting... greatest power for the wound to heal on its own. Yes, have you not seen the mother living and leading a life after the death of her dearest son, the children moving on after their parents depart, the wife/husband moving on after their love is lost. That is because, God has given them the power to forget the pain and the strength to move ahead.  God is within us every moment, good or bad.. We just sometimes fail to realise this fact.

Lets keep on moving....with the belief that HE is with us...:)