Forget it!!!! Is that so easy?

"Forget it.." as we say.. while we fight or argue or sometimes even in a steady mood.... I wonder, is that so easy to forget something?

                     To forget about our painful past..
                     To forget about our lost relationship..
                     To forget the words that hurt us.....
                             and the list goes..

I kept on thinking as to why we dont forget our painful past although we have truly beautiful memories and happiest moments in the present. Why dont we forget the pain we took to earn single penny in the past when we actually earn lakhs today. Why dont we forget the pain of our lost relationship when we are actually in a wonderful relationship today. The question in my mind goes on.

Then at one point, it occured to my mind that we fail to enjoy the present, fail to relish every moment we live now, fail to think about the beautiful days we may have tomorrow, fail to dream for wonderful beginning tomorrow. Yes, this is the truth. We keep on lingering over our past painful moments and does not allow them to heal. We tend to make deep cuts over and over on the same wound which had already left a deep scar in our mind.

We fail to understand God has given us the great power of forgeting... greatest power for the wound to heal on its own. Yes, have you not seen the mother living and leading a life after the death of her dearest son, the children moving on after their parents depart, the wife/husband moving on after their love is lost. That is because, God has given them the power to forget the pain and the strength to move ahead.  God is within us every moment, good or bad.. We just sometimes fail to realise this fact.

Lets keep on moving....with the belief that HE is with us...:)